Men were created to rule, provide and protect. They were designed as Kings to have dominion in the Earth. They were made wonderfully with a physical strength which allows them to fulfill the duties assigned to them. Because it was not meant for Man to be alone, they were "given" help mates (Women) to help them with the burdens they carry on a day-to-day basis and also to help keep them relieved and satisfied.
What they were not created and designed for was the DRAMA. They were not meant to be Woman's girlfriend, sister, Mother or any other female who would lend us a listening ear for us to vent in. They were not wired for us to drop our burdens upon them --especially those burdens which requires us to gossip (period)
Men are not our partners waiting for us to exhale...well, we can exhale with our Men, but in a way that is satisfying and pleasurable for both the Husband and the Wife.
Think about it: after working in the field (the world) all day long and then have to come home to noise about what the neighbor "hating" a-- had a nerve to do OR how that dag on supervisor pissed you off thinking you a slave, ordering you around, making you answer the phone while you tryna file the load of papers that's been sitting on the desk since before you started working there in the first place OR how you gonna transfer Hank from that school because the Principal didn't even speak to you today... *I'm tired already*
Now, we have a nation of broken, weak DRAMA KINGS. And to make matters worse, now their women are yelling at them STOP ACTING LIKE A B----...MAN UP...calling'm P---- A-- N----s . And this doesn't all come from the "help mates". Mothers also contribute to dishing the drama into their sons' lives. I won't go into that because 1. Mothers know how they do this no need for details and 2. I have to stay in my lane.
Men are not dogs or other derogatory names we give them. They are Kings who need the help from their Queens. And any ol' help mate won't work. Each Queen was purposed for her own King. And vice versa. You can try to play the role until you find the right fit (heartache, headache & bitterness)...or you can wait until the appointed time for the right fit to show up (peace, joy & unconditional love). Whatever you choose, Let Men Be Men.
Prosper in your Purpose
"With Every Heartbeat is Life"
My heart tells my mind "you can do it." It's the passion that drives me
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